An Old Sufi Story : Nasrudin And A Philosopher

There is an old Sufi story about a philosopher who made an appointment to debate with Nasrudin, a Sufi wisdom teacher.

When the day came, the philosopher dropped by Nasrudin’s house as planned. When the philosopher arrived for his appointment he found Nasrudin away from his home.

Infuriated, the philosopher picked up a piece of chalk and wrote "Stupid Oaf" on Nasrudin’s gate. When Nasrudin got home and saw this he rushed right over to the philosopher’s house.


"I had forgotten," Nasrudin told the philosopher when he got there, "that you were to call. And I'm sorry I missed our appointment. But, I remembered our appointment the minute I saw that you had written your name on my gate."

Sufi

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Isaac Asimov

"The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom."

— Isaac Asimov

American Writer/Novelist

1920 - 1992

Man's knowledge of the world around him has grown rapidly in the last 150 years, but man's understanding of his heart has not changed in thousands of years.  The more we learn; the less we know.  Our understanding of technology and science has moved so quickly that our emotional lives have failed to keep up.  We lack the wisdom to function in this crazy technological world.  So some people reject technology and try to return to earlier times.  Others find refuge in fundamental religions.  A few seek to find a path that leads to wisdom.  

Seeking and communicating wisdom should be a goal of all creative leaders.  With our paintings, poems and stories, we need to help people find the wisdom to live in these challenging times.  Through our novels, plays and film we can show people the best way to find  a path out of the maze.

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Pierre Auguste Renoir

Self-Portrait

"You come to nature with your own theories, and she knocks them all flat."

— Pierre Auguste Renoir

French Artist

1841 - 1919

Human beings develop a lot of theories, but often those theories fall flat.  We are not as intelligent as we sometimes thing we are.  We don't know as much as we think we know.  We need to be more humble and less arrogant.  Humility is an important characteristic for a creative leader to develop.  Too much egotism leads to arrogance and intolerance.  Even the masters make mistakes and have flaws in their characters.  No one is perfect.  We all have room for growth and change.  Cultivate humility.  Cultivate forgiveness.

Dance at the Moulin De La Galette
(1876)

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David Hockney

"No matter what the illusion created, it is a flat canvas and it has to be organized in shape."

— David Hockney

English Painter

1937 - 

All art is illusionary.  Whether we are talking about a painting, a novel or a film, we are talking about the art of creating reality out of nothing.  For the painter, the canvas is blank.  For the writer, the page is blank.  For the actor, the character is blank.  Out of nothing the artist creates the illusion of reality.  The better the illusion, the more likely we are to believe that we are experiencing reality.  Creative leaders are masters of illusion, magicians of mystery.

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Tomas Transtromer

"Fantastic to feel how my poem is growing

while I myself am shrinking.

It's getting bigger, it's taking my place,

it's pressing against me.

It has shoved me out of the nest.

The poem is finished."

— Tomas Transtromer

Swedish Poet

1931 - 

Every writer and painter knows when the work takes control and pushes the artist out of the picture.  We are simply vessels through which creativity flows.  The muses are in charge and are dictating their visions.  Have you learned how to give up control and let the creative spirit flow through you?

Here is a poem by Tomas Transtromer, the 2011 Nobel Prize winner for Literature.

Track

2 A.M.: moonlight. The train has stopped

out in a field. Far off sparks of light from town,

flickering coldly on the horizon.

As when a man goes deep into his dream

he will never remember that he was there

when he returns again to his room.

Or when a person goes so deep into a sickness

that his days all become some flickering sparks, a swarm,

feeble and cold on the horizon.

The train is entirely motionless.

2 o'clock:  strong moonlight, few stars.

(by Tomas Transtromer

Translated by Robert Bly)

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John O'Hara

"They say great themes make great novels, but what these young writers don't understand is that there is no greater theme than men and women."

— John O'Hara

American Novelist

1905 - 1970

I just finished Andrea, a short novel, by John O'Hara.  It is the tragic story of a 20 year love affair between a man and a woman.  I also recently finished the Good Earth by Pearl Buck.  The key relationship in the novel is between a man and his wife — a relationship the man did not appreciate as much as he should have.

The best stories are about relationships.  And the best of the best stories are about the relationships between men and women.  What makes those relationships work?  Why do the relationships fail?  Think about your own life.  What relationships are the most important to you?  What relationships are you exploring in your writing?  What relationships are you exploring in your paintings?  

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Jackson Pollack

"Painting is self-discovery."

— Jackson Pollack

American Painter

1912 - 1956

I believe all arts are about self-discovery whether we are talking about painting or literature or theater.  In the process of creating we discover who we are and whom we may want to be.  Maybe we learn something about ourselves in how a character in a story behaves.  Or we see ourselves through the lens of a photographer or painter.  Or we play a character on stage who is are alter ego.

What have you learned about yourself today?  Last week?  Last month?  Last year?  Life is a journey of self-discovery and change.  Are you growing and developing as you age?

The Key(1946)

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Jane Goodall

"What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make."

— Jane Goodall

British Primatologist/Anthropologist/Author

World's Foremost Expert on Chimpanzees

1934 - 

Are you making a difference?  Are you leaving your small corner of the world a better place than when you found it?  More than 25 years ago, I was fired from a job and immediately put my house up for sale because I knew I would have to move in order to find another job in my field.  A couple weeks later, my wife and I stopped at a nursery and purchased a cherry tree that we planted in the backyard.  Now, we were never going to see this tree grow, but we did it anyway.  I have strong belief that you need to leave a place better than you found it.  You need to give back and that is what I was doing.  On a couple of occasions, I had a chance to revisit this house and I saw that the tree had grown into a beautiful tree. 

In the moments before I speak, I motivate myself by repeating over and over to myself:  "I will touch the life of at least one person.  I will make a difference in the life of one person."  I know I won't touch everyone, but if I am able to motivate one person to be better than he is, then I know I have done my job.  As writers and artists we have the same opportunity to make a difference in people's lives.

I had an opportunity to hear Jane Goodall speak about her work about ten years ago.  My wife, daughter and I drove three hours to hear her speak.  Then we stood in a long line so she could sign a book for my daughter.  We did not arrive home until about 2 am.  Jane Goodall was an inspiration for my daughter.  She made a difference in my daughter's life.  

How are you touching the lives of the people who view your paintings or read your books?  Are you leaving your corner of the world better than you found it?

Watch this video of Jane Goodall and her research.

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Lionel Shriver

"Change is like that: you are no longer where you were; you are not yet where you will get; you are nowhere exactly."

— Lionel Shriver

American Novelist

1957 -

Creative leaders must live in a state of change.  Each new painting, each new story, each new poem brings about change.  You are no longer where you were.  You finished your last project and now you are on to the next.  You are filled with the excitement of beginning something new but you don't know where it will take you.  You are in between.  You are nowhere.  And as you create, the change continues.  You think you are going one direction and suddenly a new character appears and takes you into another.  Change is constant and as creative leaders we must learn to appreciate it, encourage it, embrace it and enjoy it.

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Jane Rule

"It's not the length but the quality of life that matters to me.  It has always been important to me to write one sentence at a time, to live every day as if it were my last and judge it in those terms, often badly, not because it lacked grand gesture or grand passion but because it failed in the daily virtues of self-discipline, kindness and laughter."

— Jane Rule

1931 - 2006

Canadian Writer

Are you focused on the big picture or do you live each day as if it was your last?  The challenge is to balance both.  You need the big picture of where you are going, but you need to live as if each day is your last.  And by that I don't mean spending all day with family and doing nothing.  Living each day as your last has to do with your passion, purpose, desire, priorities and commitment.  Are you focused on the right priorities?  Are you focused on the passion in your life?  Are you committed to doing your best each and every day.  Are you focused on the virtues of self-discipline, kindness and laughter?

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Lou Holtz

"It's always better to face the truth, no matter how uncomfortable, than to continue coddling a lie."

— Lou Holtz

American Coach, Speaker

1937 - 

One of the hardest things to do is to face the truth about ourselves.  It hurts.  And sometimes the pain is more than we want to bear.  Sometimes the truth does not fit our self-image.  And yet the truth when faced will make us better people — better creative leaders. 

What truths are you not facing today?  What truths are you hiding from?  What truths do you need to embrace?  What lies are you still living with?  What lies are preventing you from becoming who you are meant to be?  What lies should you stop telling yourself?

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Alice Walker

"Even if you don't consider yourself an artist, to make something that is beautiful and not destructive, or to make something that is useful and not destructive, that is the healing power of the artist."

— Alice Walker

American Novelist/Poet

1944 -

One of the oldest needs of human beings is the need to create.  There are people who make beautiful objects, but society does not consider them artists.  There are people who make useful objects, but society does not consider them artists.  And yet in my opinion, they are artists.   A gardener who is passionate about the garden she grows is an artist.  A furniture maker who is passionate about the furniture he makes is an artist.  

Here is Alice Walker talking about the genesis of her novel, The Color Purple.

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Saul Bellow

"Everyone needs his memories.  They keep the wolf of insignificance from the door."

— Saul Bellow

Canadian Novelist

1915 - 2005

Human beings have a need to feel good about themselves.  Even those who have done evil deeds have a way justifying what they have done.  They do not believe that they are bad people.  They use their memories to justify the person they have become.  And on the flip side, even the most successful and influential people sometimes feel as if they have accomplished nothing.  They remember only the negative events in their lives and become depressed.

Our memories are very powerful and they influence the lives we lead.  We all are selective in the memories that we retain.  We choose how we remember our past and what we believe about ourselves.  We are defined by one memory alone, but some of us live that way.   Choose wisely the memories that you keep and let go of those that trouble you.

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Mary Oliver

"One must work with the creative powers — for not to work with is to work against; in art as in spiritual life, there is no neutral place."

— Mary Oliver

American Poet

1935 -

Sometimes people refuse to accept the gifts they have been given.  And some even fight the gifts or deny them.  We need to embrace our gifts and accept the responsibility that goes with the gift.  Be happy to work with what you have been given.    Celebrate your creative powers.

Here is Mary Oliver reading 2 of  her poems as well as being interview by Coleman Barks.

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Hermann Hesse

"The deity is within you, not in ideas and books.  Truth is lived, not taught."

— Hermann Hesse

German Writer, Painter

1877 - 1962

Are you living the truth of your life?  Do you know what the truth of your life is?  Do you know who you are?  Are you comfortable with who you are?  Are you in touch with yourself and understand why you behave in the way you do?  Have you forgiven yourself for your mistakes and failures.  Do you believe that the answers to your questions are inside you, not in books and ideas?  Believe in yourself and stand up for what you believe.

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Jacques Lipchitz

"Art is an action against death.  It is a denial of death."

— Jacques Lipchitz

Lithuanian Sculptor

1891 - 1973

Mother and Child
(1930)

My first encounter with death was when my grandfather (my father's father) died during my tenth grade school year.  I served as one of pall bearers.  A year later, a girl in my class died.  She was a cheerleader and I never saw her again after the game.  Sudden and quick death.  When I was a freshman in college a sixteen year old girl I had known from my camp years died in an automobile accident.  During the summer between my junior and senior year in college my girl friend's mother died of breast cancer.  And the list could go on and on.  Every year or two someone I know dies.  And I am sure I am not unusual.  Most people know someone who has died.  

Death is an every day affair, and yet we know so little of it.  We try to deny its existence.  We seek ways to extend our lives.  We avoid talking about it happening to us.  Yet death stalks us and is always close by.  We cannot avoid it.  So our art becomes a form of salvation — a way to extend our lives beyond the grave, a way to keep us alive.  Art gives us hope that maybe we too can live forever.

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Stephen King

"If you want to be a writer, you must do two things above all others: 

read a lot and write a lot."

— Stephen King

American Novelist

1947 - 

The key to being successful in any of the artistic endeavors is practice.  If you want to be a writer, then write every day.  Write thousands upon thousands of words.  Spend more time writing than rewriting.  Keep creating day in and day out.  Also read every day.  Read and study other authors.  

If you want to be a painter, then paint every day.  Draw thousands of pictures.  Paint thousands of pictures.  Success comes from practice.  And study the paintings of other painters.  Study the masters.  Visit the art museums.  

For most of us, the practice of our chosen craft does not come easy.  We must practice, practice and practice.

Here is Stephen King talking about writing.

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Nice Inspirational Quotes For Luck And Opportunity

"Luck is a matter of preparation meeting opportunity."

---Oprah Winfrey



"The meeting of preparation with opportunity generates the offspring we call luck." ---Anthony Robbins



"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity."

---Lucius Annaeus Seneca



"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."

---Sir Winston Churchill



"Opportunity often comes in disguised in the form of misfortune, or temporary defeat."

---Napoleon Hill





"Opportunity comes like a snail, and once it has passed you it changes into a fleet rabbit and is gone."

---Arthur Brisbane



"Nothing is more expensive than a missed opportunity."

---H.Jackson Brown JR.

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Mahatma Gandhi

"The weak can never forgive.  Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

— Mahatma Gandhi

Indian Lawyer/Political Activist

1869 - 1948

Sometimes the private lives of writers, singers and artists don't live up to the high standards of their creative work.  Alcohol, drugs and sex have destroyed some of our most creative people.  Some have battled their demons and lost.  The demons may have fueled their creativity, but in the end the demons took control and destroyed them.  Creative leaders must learn to forgive those who have hurt them and to grow beyond the pain into better human beings.  

Learn to forgive the people in your life who have hurt you.  The anger does you no good.  It is very destructive and in the end you will be the one who suffers.  Make the  choice today to be a better person.  

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Audre Lorde

"Our feelings are our most genuine path to knowledge."

— Audre Lorde

American Writer/Poet

1934 - 1992

Many of us seek knowledge and wisdom.  And some of us spend a lifetime seeking.  But few if any ever find the answers we are looking for.  Creative leaders seek answers in their art.  The creative process is about looking for answers — about seeking knowledge and wisdom.  And for most creative leaders, the path to knowledge is found in exploring our feelings in our art.

Here Audre Lorde in her own words.

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Rabindranath Tagore

"Butterflies count not months but moments, and yet have time enough."

— Rabindranath Tagore

Bengali Poet, Novelist, Musician, Painter, Playwright

1861 - 1941

Do you have enough time to do everything you need and want to do?  Probably most of you answered no.  We are a culture obsessed with time.  And there never seems to be enough.  And for some of us we have to squeeze our creative work in between everything else we do.  I rise an hour before I have to in order to write.  I sometimes write over my lunch hour.  Or when my wife goes to the mall, I tag along and sit at a table and write.  

But if we are honest with ourselves, we probably waste time.  What do you do driving to and from work?  I listen to books on CD.  What do you do when you are sitting at the doctor's office waiting to see the doctor?  Can you steal 10 or 15 minutes to write or draw.  We all have the same amount of time — 24 hours a day.  The key is how we prioritize.  It is all about choices.  We do what we want to do.  

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Pablo Picasso

"A young artist must forget painting when he paints.  That's the only way he will do original work.  To blossom forth, a work of art must ignore or rather forget all the rules."

— Pablo Picasso

Spanish Artist

1881 - 1973

Girl Before a Mirror
(1932)

When I teach people to be speakers, I tell  them that first they must learn the rules of speaking and then learn that they can break all the rules.  When it comes to the creatives arts, no rules are absolute.  And all rules can be broken.  Yes, it is good to know what the rules are so that you are aware when you are breaking them.  But understand that you can break every single rule and still create a masterpiece.

But watch out for the rule police.  Their job is to find all the mistakes that you make and throw them into your face.  Maybe it is a spelling mistake or a misplaced comma.  Or maybe the arms in your painting are too short or the eyes too big.  The rule police thrive on finding something wrong, but usually are unwilling to paint or write themselves.

The key to your success in the creative arts is knowing when and where to bend or break the rules.  You must learn to push the envelope.

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Lisa Alther

"It had been fourteen years and I hadn't had anything published.  I had 250 rejection slips.  I got my first novel published and it was called Kinflicks.  It turned out to be a best seller."

— Lisa Alther

American Novelist

1944 -

The creative arts are not for the weak of will.  The creative arts require commitment, persistence and self-discipline in the face of cold-hearted rejection.  Do you have the self-discipline to stay focused when the world is screaming that you should quit and find a normal line of work?  Do you have the strength to keep going when you have received 250 rejection letters?  How long are you willing to wait for success?  Two years?  Five years?  Ten?  Twenty?

Listen to Lisa talk about the gravel road that eventually led to her success.

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Ray Bradbury

"You don't have to burn books to destroy a culture.  Just get people to stop reading them."

— Ray Bradbury

American Novelist

1920 -

If you have read Fahrenheit 451, you will understand the irony of this statement.  Fahrenheit 451 is about a culture where books are burned.  And if you haven't read it, you should.  But Bradbury is correct.  Not reading books is even more dangerous than burning them.  If a person doesn't read, he is limiting his understanding of the world around him and the pleasure he can find in inhabiting another world.



In my classes I often meet business people who admit to not reading a book about since school.  This is very sad and senseless.  Books help us understand the past so that we are better prepared for the future.  Books teach us and educate us about the world in which we live.  I tell people if they want to understand what makes people tick, they should read novels.  For novelists to be able to tell a great story, they have to understand at some level what makes people tick.



I am also surprised by want-to-be writers who don't read.  This is particularly true of some people who write poetry.  They say they write it but don't read it.  A curious fact.



As creative leaders, we need to be constantly learning and growing.  Books are one avenue for learning?  When was the last time your read a book?  What books are you reading now?  What are your favorite books?



This video of Ray Bradbury is a must see for all lovers of books and lovers of the work of Ray Bradbury.

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